A philosopher once said, "Body is an instrument of the Self". Body is the material entity while the Self is the conscious entity experiencing the material world. Nobody has ever seen the Self but its presence is felt somewhere inside, somewhere behind our own eyes. You see others as material beings while you see yourself through an entirely different perspective. When you look inside you see the Self & not always your material body.
Not just life but people have also become complicated these days. You have no idea when a small mistake could break your relationship. It is not uncommon that people go through multiple relationships & bad experiences. People easily get annoyed or frustrated by someone. The possible reason for this is "stress".
The source of this stress is not just your workload or complications that you create for yourself, people are a trouble for each other as well. Ever wondered why all those love stories feature "An Understanding Guy & A Caring Girl?" You will never see a love story where a guy used to beat a girl & the story ended. Love is truly experienced when you feel comfortable & happy with your partner and you forget all your tension and worries.
But this does not always happen, as I said, "People are a trouble for each other as well." After going through multiple relationships & bad experiences one may finally lose all hope & decide to stay alone forever. But, do you really think that you would be able to do that?
Before taking such a big decision let's see how would be life without marriage.
- No Partner - No fights, no tension, no arguments.
- Late night party & hang out with friends.
- No worry about family planning.
- No babies - No responsibilities, no school & college fees.
Feels good, Right? But there is another side of the coin as well.
- Nobody would be by your side when you'll fall ill.
- No family support - You are on your own.
- No happiness of parenthood.
- No grandchildren when you will get old.
However, one may adopt a child or try some other measures to get a baby and get the feeling of parenthood and that will actually complete your life up to some extent but we are not going into that for now.
Okay, so you have decided that you are never ever going to fall in love again or marry with someone. Then you need to do something. "Human is a social animal" and you need to keep yourself busy & you need some people around you as well. If you won't keep yourself busy and you think you will spend an entire life sitting on a chair, then your mind will go haywire. You can either:
Okay, so you have decided that you are never ever going to fall in love again or marry with someone. Then you need to do something. "Human is a social animal" and you need to keep yourself busy & you need some people around you as well. If you won't keep yourself busy and you think you will spend an entire life sitting on a chair, then your mind will go haywire. You can either:
- Be busy in your work & try to be more successful.
- Earn a lot of money & experience a luxurious life.
- Do social service to other people.
- Become a support system to other people.
- Spend time with kids or with needy people.
This is actually necessary, otherwise, you will start getting emotionally attached to other people & you will trouble yourself emotionally. Either you will think of what happened in the past or you will feel attached to people around you. People are actually very busy in their work & family so you cannot get attached to someone because you do not have a family- they are not going to give your their time unless you are important to them.
So, if you are taking this decision at the time when:
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So, if you are taking this decision at the time when:
- You recently had a breakup
- You are young & more career oriented
- You are spending time with your friends
Then you might wanna give it a second thought because you cannot get married any time you want. I have observed that usually, such people suffer through:
- Depression
- Lack of enthusiasm
- Emotional dependency
- Mood swings
- Outbursts of anger
So, it is not really easy to live such a life. People come & go but that "does not mean that you are not meant for love". So, wait for the right time till you find the right partner & even before that "Become a Right Person for Someone". Almost everyone suffers through heartbreaks & emotional troubles but from that, we should learn to differentiate between right & wrong and become more mature.
Hope you will find the right partner for yourself!
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